How many great loves would we miss out on by following your 90 day rule? Of course we’d cut out the time wasters but along with them potentially our soulmate.

My husband and I took a long time before we committed and after 20 years of unexpected health challenges for both of us that would have broken most marriages, we have never wavered.

Perhaps you should write about what makes a good life partner instead. You can start with why it has nothing to do with arbitrary rules.