Seems to me both parties need to grow up and get real. Neither is ready for marriage. If the foundation of your marriage isn’t the love you and your partner have for each other, then your marriage is doomed from the start.

Any given day may be judged as perfect or imperfect. But that just sets you up for failure. It’s not the events in a day that make it one way or another, it’s your attitude.

If the groom is as selfish and not into weddings as the portrayed and the bride is okay if he just shows up and doesn’t smoosh cake into her face, she’s selling herself short. Or else, it isn’t love she cares about but appearances. And as we all know, appearances are just illusions.

The best weddings are the ones where love abounds and the bride and groom care so much about each other their love is contagious. They go with the flow and make everyone feel at home. And that can be done without a huge todo or spending a fortune that you could have used for a better day to day life.